top of page
Search

Beyond the Words: The Power of Voice, Presence & Story

Writer: Thania Trieu
Thania Trieu
Sep 4
5 min read

Inside a Let Her Shine workshop at Washington English Center, more than 25 students explored how confidence, presence, and storytelling can transform the way we communicate—because powerful communication is about more than finding the perfect words.



Communication starts long before you say a word. It begins in how you enter a room. Your posture. Your breath. Your eye contact. Your expression. Your energy.

Before people hear your words, they experience your presence.


That was one of the central lessons of The Art of Storytelling for Effective Communication & Leadership, an interactive workshop facilitated by Let Her Shine at Washington English Center on August 18.


More than 25 students participated, many of whom are navigating the experience of communicating in English as an additional language. During the workshop, participants spoke openly about what it feels like to be misunderstood, to search for the right words, or to begin a conversation by saying:


“My English is not very good.”


It is a simple sentence, but underneath it can live something much bigger:

Please be patient with me.

Please don't judge me.

Please understand that I may not say this perfectly.


Sometimes, before we even give someone the opportunity to hear us, we unintentionally diminish our own voice. That opened the door to one of the most important ideas of the workshop: Your message or your story doesn't have to be perfectly told to be worth hearing.



Beyond the Words


Let Her Shine President, Thania Trieu guided participants through interactive exercises focused on storytelling, connection, vocal delivery, body language, confidence, and authentic self-expression.


The goal wasn't to teach participants how to speak perfect English. It was to help them recognize everything they already bring to communication—their experiences, perspectives, emotions, voices, presence, and stories.


Because communication is about much more than the words we choose.


How you use your voice—your pace, pause, volume, tone, and emphasis can completely change how a message is received.


How you use your physical and visual presence—your posture, facial expressions, gestures, and eye contact can reinforce your message before a sentence is even complete.


And underneath all of it is something even more important:

Believing that what you have to say matters.


Experiencing the Shift


Throughout the workshop, participants were invited to stand, speak, share pieces of their stories, and receive live coaching.



A participant might begin quietly, looking down, speaking quickly, or concentrating so intently on finding the right words that the meaning behind those words became harder to express.


Then came another attempt.

Slow down.

Breathe.

Look up.

Pause.

Emphasize the words that matter.

Connect with the person in front of you.

Own your message.

Sometimes the shift happened after one attempt. Sometimes it took three or four.

But with each round, something began to change.

The words may have been similar.

The way the person communicated them was different.

Shoulders lifted.

Eye contact became stronger.

Voices became clearer.

Smiles appeared.


Participants began experiencing, in real time, the difference between simply saying words and truly communicating a message.

And the room experienced the shift with them.


There were smiles, encouragement, applause, and moments of recognition as participants supported one another—not because anyone suddenly spoke “perfectly,” but because they were beginning to communicate with greater confidence and connection.


That is where learning can become transformation: not simply when someone is told what confidence looks like, but when they have an opportunity to experience the difference for themselves.



Your Accent Is Part of Your Story


For a community representing different countries, cultures, languages, and life experiences, the conversation also raised a powerful point:


An accent is not something that diminishes a person's story.


It can represent another language learned, another culture carried, another country called home, another journey taken.


Behind every accent is a story.

Instead of asking:

“Am I saying this perfectly?”

Storytelling invites us to ask:

“What do I want people to understand, feel, or remember?”


That shift moves communication away from perfection and toward connection.

Because the most memorable communicators aren't necessarily the people who use the most sophisticated words.


They're often the people who make us feel something.

They help us understand who they are.

They make us want to listen.

And they allow us to see a little of ourselves in their story.


Finding the Story Within the Story


One of the tools introduced during the workshop was a simple storytelling framework centered around three elements:


Moment. Meaning. Message.

What happened?

What did that experience mean to you?

And what do you want someone else to take away from it?


A story becomes more powerful when we move beyond simply describing what happened and begin understanding why it mattered.

That meaning is often where connection happens.


Our circumstances may be different. Our cultures may be different. Our languages may be different. But emotions such as fear, hope, disappointment, courage, love, uncertainty, belonging, and determination cross many of those boundaries.


When we share from that deeper place, storytelling becomes more than communication.

It becomes a bridge.


Communication as Leadership


Storytelling isn't only a skill for speakers.

It is a leadership skill.

We use it when interviewing for a job.

When introducing ourselves.

When advocating for an idea.

When communicating with coworkers.

When building relationships.

When speaking with our families.

When serving our communities.

And when stepping into opportunities that require us to be seen and heard.


Leadership doesn't always begin with a title.

Sometimes it begins with having the confidence to raise your hand.

To introduce yourself.

To share an idea.

To tell your story.

To say:

“I have something worth saying.”


Your Voice Matters


By the end of the workshop, the transformation in the room could be seen in small but meaningful ways.


Participants were looking one another in the eye.

They were standing taller.

They were speaking with greater intention.

They were encouraging one another.


And perhaps most importantly, they were beginning to recognize that they didn't need to apologize for their voice before using it.


Effective communication isn't about always finding the perfect words.

It's about learning to express the words you do have with clarity, authenticity, intention, and presence.


Your voice can give your words power.

Your presence can reinforce your message.

Your story can create connection.

And your experiences give you something that no one else can communicate exactly the way you can.


At Let Her Shine, we believe empowerment isn't about giving someone a voice.

The voice is already there.

Sometimes, what people need is the space, tools, encouragement, and opportunity to discover the confidence to use it.


Because your story matters.

Your voice matters.


And you don't have to wait until everything is perfect before allowing the world to hear either one.

 
 
 

Comments


bottom of page